How being treated differently taught me to appreciate being different

Being different isn’t a bad thing. It means you’re brave enough to be yourself.  Unknown When I was being bullied, all I wanted was to fit in. It was important to me that I looked and acted like everyone else. I thought that if I did then I wouldn’t be bullied. It didn’t quite work […]

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Learning to deal with naysayers

One of the worst things that can happen when you’re starting to get your confidence back and feeling good about yourself again, is someone trying to bring you down. Have you experienced this? It’s so demoralizing, isn’t it? According to Dictionary.com, a naysayer is “a person who habitually expresses negative or pessimistic views.” Based on […]

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The only person you need to like you is you

In the last two posts we talked about perfection and how you shouldn’t try to be perfect all of the time. Sometimes we try to be perfect so that others will see us in a more favorable light. The thing is, this isn’t necessary. We shouldn’t be trying to be perfect in order to please others or to […]

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Imperfection as the key to happiness?

In the last post I talked about how you’re not perfect and you don’t have to be. In this post I’m going to talk about why that’s a really good thing. After all, it’s easier to be imperfect than it is to be perfect, right? Well, what if being imperfect could actually make you happy? […]

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You’re not perfect and you don’t have to be (here’s why)

The flower in the picture above is missing a petal, but does that make it any less of a flower or any less beautiful?… I have to admit that I’m quite the perfectionist. I like everything to be in its right place. I like every ‘T’ crossed and every ‘I’ dotted. I like for it […]

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